do think we know what we are attracted to. for instance, Looks, height, weight, body, completion, race etc…. all play a factor but, In the book, The Brain in Love: 12 Lessons to Enhance Your Love Life, Dr. Daniel G. Amen says, “that romantic love and infatuation are not so much of an emotion as they are motivational drives that are part of the brain's reward system.” Would you agree or disagree that the brain's reward system is centered around intimacy as the ultimate reward?